I still say happy holidays

The Happy Holidays backlash mystifies me. Not everybody celebrates Christmas. I’m not scared.

Complaints about being politically correct don’t hold with me. I believe most PC terms reflect how people want to be addressed or acknowledged. I don’t think of it as being PC to say Happy Hanukkah or Happy Solstice or Happy Kwanzaa or the all-encompassing … Happy Holidays.

If holiday greetings are about spreading love, why can’t we share our kindness and good cheer with people in a way that respects and welcomes their unique experiences? If I know you celebrate Christmas, then by all means, it’s Merry Christmas! But if I don’t know you or I’m aware you have different cultural traditions, I’m either going to acknowledge your celebration or go with Happy Holidays.

We celebrate Christmas at our house but more as a folk festival than anything else. We do not subscribe to religion but sometimes adopt features of the parts we like! And then we make new traditions.

Our Christmas Eve tradition for many years is Dale’s homemade pizza and a movie, preferably a comedy. I’m struggling to find a good one for this evening, so if anybody has ideas that can be streamed from Netflix or Amazon, please share!

Christmas morning we have coffee and open a few presents. We abandoned big loot years ago. Now it’s just one or two things for each other and what the sisters send. And something for the cat! My sister-in-law sent a wrapped gift for Riley, and he knows it’s his. He has been pawing and clawing and sniffing around since it arrived. Catnip, perhaps?

Then we eat leftover pizza and enjoy a cold beer. While the pizza/beer buzz wears off, we putz around and start Christmas dinner, which we typically eat around 5:30 or 6 p.m. We keep it simple. Roast beef, broccoli and mashed potatoes. Dessert varies. This year we are eating homemade plum pudding from last year’s Christmas dinner. It has been wrapped well in the fridge. I tasted it, and it’s still delicious. I’ll make new hard sauce to go with.

As a treat to myself, later this afternoon I will try out my new homemade cannabis bath salts. All my achy breaky parts are screaming this time of year, so I’m hoping for some soothing relief. It was so easy to make using Epsom salt, Himalayan pink salt, baking soda and cannabis-infused coconut oil. I can’t wait to give you a full report on the outcome.

Until then, Happy Holidays! And Merry Christmas!

3 thoughts on “I still say happy holidays”

  1. I am retired too and glad to find your blog. Since tomorrow is Christmas I am wishing your Christmas is merry. It sounds like you have some nice ways of celebrating.

    1. Hi Terra — thank you for visiting and thanks for the kind greetings. I look forward to reading your blog, too. And Merry Christmas to you!

  2. Happy holidays is just being polite and respectful, so I’m with you.

    I was putting my new gigantic LaCrueset that I got early this year at less than half the price because one little drip of the outer enamel color was barely on the inside and I had an idea for a new meme.

    Picture a heading for the NRA – the National Roasting Association- you can peel my LaCrueset from my cold dead hands!

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