Oh, the drama of hair

Oh, the drama of hair. I always remind myself I did just fine when I was on chemo 20 years ago and didn’t have any hair. What’s to complain about?

Plenty, I guess. It needed to be cut, my stylist did exactly what I wanted her to do, but I really don’t know how to fix it anymore. Letting it air dry as I did for the picture in my previous post did not produce the results I expected.

Although I dreaded it, today I went back to the salon and bought styling gel. I wet my hair, added the gel and put some leave-in conditioner on the ends. Then I dragged out the blow dryer. More work but better. With the shorter length, I can probably get away with blow drying it periodically. I previously avoided heat because I was pushing the limits of what my hair can do.

Maybe I like this. It looks more modern, don’t you think? A bit thicker and less frizzy? There’s some extra forehead showing, but I don’t really care about that. It is what it is. I do not want bangs. All in all, I believe I can accept this hair, but I’m not sure it’s me. A little too conventional, perhaps.

That said, my hair was really starting to look bad. Something needed to be done. At least with this length, I can still wear it up or in a pony with a hat for golf and other sports. What do you think? A keeper or keep trying?

16 thoughts on “Oh, the drama of hair”

  1. Donna, you look great the one way or the other.
    As you may remember, I wear my hair long. I keep it like this: one last chop at April and then let it grow till September. During the cold period I wear different clothes, which look better with shorter hair and blowout (like yours).
    In the summertime, it simply doesnt matter and I like a “messy” look.

    1. I like your strategy of messy summer, blowout in the winter. I am starting to see I can live with this hair. Most of the time, I don’t have to fix it, but when I do, it looks way better at this length.

  2. I think I can comment on behalf of all your male subscribers (“Bueller.. anyone?”) when I say that you can please relax. You’re rockin’ the new cut – and the shades complete the look.

    1. Hi, George! Thank you very much. I am starting to like it — as you say, just relax. Speaking of Bueller, I was thinking just yesterday I haven’t read anything about Ben Stein lately. I wonder what he’s up to and where he stands with the political scene.

  3. Your hair looks healthier with the ends trimmed a bit.Looks good on you.I cut my hair very short years ago–too lazy for “goddess hair”– BUT since yours in mostly all one length and can be pulled up in a pony or a bun,I say just keep it like that–the shorter cut is more maintenance,I have to have a trim every 5 weeks. You can let your length go for months and still look good!!

    1. Thank you so much. I’m still getting used to it, but the positive feedback helps!

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