Softening with age?

This head cold or whatever it was kicked my butt. I wondered if I got false negatives on the Covid tests, but I guess it doesn’t matter now. I’m recovered, except for some lingering sinus issues. That’s probably related to seasonal allergies, which everyone is complaining about. I’ve taken to the neti pot, and that helps clear the congestion.

Dale caught my cold, and all that congestion made his snoring worse. One night it was so bad I almost called 911. But then I thought, oh, just put the pillow over his face and be done with it. I’m pleased to report he survived the night and has a bright future. The things I do for this man!

I finally felt good enough to go back to swimming. It had been a few weeks, and I felt stiffness in my left arm. I thought, kick a little harder and take the pressure off the arm. So, now I have muscle cramps in my leg. No good deed goes unpunished. It’s better today, so I assume this, too, shall pass. I’ll probably do a short walk just to keep it moving.

That’s kind of my philosophy about all these age-related aches and pains – just keep moving. Although I love to read, I start to feel sluggish when I lie around for hours at a time. I always feel better when I get outside and do something. Of course, I’d play golf if I was on death’s doorstep. And, in fact, have. I played regularly when I was on chemo for stage 3 ovarian cancer. I didn’t want to fall behind just in case I lived.

I subscribed to PBS Masterpiece. I’ve always liked my crime dark and hard-boiled, but I must be softening with age. Like a ripe Camembert. Probably more like an old cucumber.

There’s a lot of great content on PBS Masterpiece! I liked Miss Scarlet & the Duke, a Victorian mystery about London’s first female detective. I’m told All Creatures Great and Small is excellent, so that may be next on the list.

My sister’s goal is to watch every single Hallmark movie aired between Thanksgiving and Christmas. I might be softening up, but that is her dream, not mine. I do like Elf and Christmas in South Park, so I’m not a complete grinch.

As for reading, I’ll go out on a limb here and share I am absolutely loving The Thursday Murder Club series by Richard Osman. The books features friends in their 70s and 80s who meet at their retirement home and commence to solve murders.  They all have unique backgrounds that come into play.

I’ve read some bad reviews, but I find the novels laugh-out-loud funny and yet quite sensitive about aging and all things associated. I’ve read two, and there are only four, so the good times will end soon.

Do you dream about work? I had a weird one last night. Six years, and I still can’t get that business out of my head. But it’s not all bad. When I was working, I put all the money I could into various savings plans, and two of them are set up to make annual distributions for five years. This was year two, so I got my little cash infusion, and I forgave them for the bad dreams.

Who knows what got into me, but I put my name in the hat to be a volunteer at the library. As soon as I did it, I started thinking about all the negatives. Like Covid, shooters, children. I want nothing to do with any of them. I think it’s just shelving books, but still.

15 thoughts on “Softening with age?”

  1. Glad you’re back to good health. I’m listening to my husband hacking away while watching our hometown team playing in LV for a championship. He started feeling bad after our Thanksgiving dinner with our granddaughter and her two little kids. That should tell you something. Ask to shelve books in the adult section only. Wearing a mask might help, too. I hate having to think about that stuff.

  2. I wish your sister well in her ‘goal’ but shudder at the very idea! Tell her to check out Christmas in Connecticut to see a rom-com made before they were “Hallmarked.”

  3. “Just put a pillow over his head and be done with it.” I roared.

    I’m going to check out the Thursday Murder Club. Always looking for new mysteries. I have read thousands of mysteries and watched thousands more on TV. I’m pretty sure I could kill someone and get away with it now.

    My decades of work life was devided into bookkeeping (mostly payroll) and medical assisting. I’m 75 but still have constant dreams about both occupations. I’m either working in a medical clinic or in an office trying to collect timecards. It never ends.

    1. I hope you like the books. The style of humor totally resonates with me.

      I’m sorry you get the dreams, too. And I’m sorry it doesn’t appear as if they will go away for us. I was in communications, and in my dream, I had to write a speech, but they kept moving up the deadline.

  4. I agree that in today’s world, being in any public space is fraught with concerns. But I applaud your decision to volunteer at the library. I worked for a few years in a bookstore, and it was the best time ever! I sometimes had the chance to fill in for the Receiving Clerk, which was my favorite. Open a giant box, filled with books – I found some of my favorite books then. You may have inspired a volunteer gig for me.

  5. And you know, Donna, if he’s still making a noise, you’re not holding the pillow down hard enough!!

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